If I’m not going on dates regularly, its by (my) choice.” “I don’t date because that would piss off my wife.” “Guy to girl ratio is much better than in college, where it was 70% girls.” “All the guys are literally cookie cutter: either young, cocky bankers or redneck country boys. Oh…married or gay….that’s right….” Being Jewish, the Jewish dating scene for Males ( I am) is tough, especially looking for a nice Jewish girl (NJG) “Everyone is a transplant so the urge to meet new friends and try new things is there sort of like a college town.
I used to live in Charleston and the dating scene was the worst.” “Seriously.
Every guy I meet is so invested in this bizarre idea of masculinity and vanity and traditional gender roles that say I’m supposed to look a certain way and talk a certain way and act a certain way, that I feel like there’s not any room for me to just be myself.
I’ve never had any issues finding a new partner :)” “Bumble app is the way to go!
” “Very few of the men want to ask women out in person.
There is a major underground STD problem in Charlotte that needs more awareness.” “People need to be more creative than – “Let’s drink!
'” “There are lots of opportunities to meet people.for some reason it still seems challenging.My other complaint is that an inordinately high percentage of the single women here (based admittedly anecdotal and not empirical data) are either nurses or teachers.Not that there’s anything wrong with nurses or teachers (except teachers who are so boring), but it seems like it’s totally impossible to find a single woman in CLT who does something different. The irony is not lost on me, by the way, that the Southern ladies who are answering this poll are probably saying they can’t connect with northern guys and why are they all bankers (I’m not a banker).” “As someone from Atlanta, the dating scene is phenomenal in Charlotte.They need to learn how to man up and ask women out in real life instead of via social media or a dating app.When you do find someone you like, they want the benefits of a relationship but don’t want to take you on a date.” “From what I have observed with my friends, if I was single, I would just quit.” “Meetups are fun, but a lot of the crowd seems superficial, at least where I’ve been looking.” “Online dating is the only option.” “Where do you meet someone these days?Too many polo shirts.” “I think Charlotte has a lot of opportunities and cool spaces to meet people but it seems like there is a general fear of approaching people.